Feminine Embodiment - Feminine Empowerment - Feminine Creation
Stress, Tension & Depletion block Creation & Connection
There is more stress in our world today than at any other time in human history.
We live in a culture that promotes profit, productivity and being plugged into devices at all times - pandemic, politics, 24-hour news, Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, Instagram, TikTok. Our culture does not value rest, relaxation, rejuvenation, women’s natural cycles or women’s bodies.
The American Dream narrative has been telling us for hundreds of years: “If you work hard, you can accomplish anything." The Shadow side of this narrative is the message, "If don’t work hard, you are lazy and undeserving.” Many high performance coaches and internet marketing gurus promote metaphors like “crushing it” and “grinding it out” as the path to success. Whether or not we agree with these values, we are all deeply conditioned to participate in them.
Contemporary empowered women tend to feel like we should be able to do it all: career, relationship, kids, caring for our aging parents, keeping up with the news and social media, friendships and trying to discern what is real and what is important amidst all the negativity happening in the world. Many women have a Drill Sergeant living in our heads, constantly telling us that we are not DOING enough.
The problem is this lifestyle puts women into a state of adrenaline-driven depletion, overwhelm and imbalance. We are often in a low-grade state of fight or flight without even realizing it. When we keep ourselves in a constant state of going, doing and looking at screens, we literally fry our nervous systems.
The feminine body is not designed to be going and doing all the time. That constant output of energy drains and exhausts the feminine energetic system and then we shut down and become brittle, anxious, depressed, sick, resentful or “bitchy.” It takes a toll on our sex drive, too.
We can’t experience abundance, joy or deeply satisfying intimate connection when we hold tension in our bodies and constantly output our energy.
Laura Wolf - 51 now and feeling fantastic!
By my mid 40's I was totally burnt out.
As a single mom and soul-driven entrepreneur dedicated to empowering others, I was working, going and doing all the time. I saw clients during the day while my son, Ryland, went to school. In the evenings, we did homework, soccer, dinner, dishes, bath and bedtime stories. After Ryland went to bed, I took on-line courses to learn how to grow my business. I often worked on my computer til midnight and then my brain was too amped up from staring at screens to go to sleep. Without knowing any better, I was using my masculine capacities to do everything. I felt anxious all the time, got sick every couple of months and my sex drive disappeared. (I later learned that stress and depletion can cause a woman's sex drive to dry up.)
I was so exhausted I couldn’t even conjure up the energy to make things happen with my business at that point. My body simply wouldn’t let me. I seriously needed to slow down and learn new ways of being and doing.
So I went on a journey to heal my body and find my vitality again. I sought out feminine embodiment teachers, joined women’s circles, and began studying tantra, the energetic systems of the feminine body and the feminine process of creation.
In the last five years, I have completely changed how I do life. I softened into my Feminine essence and let go of survival patterns of constantly working hard to make things happen through the mighty will of my Masculine. I transformed tons of limiting beliefs and learned how to consciously create my reality instead of letting my past determine my future. I finally discovered how to play and live in the flow of joy and ease. My libido came back! And I trust the Universe to bring me everything I need.
Today I love supporting women in coming home to our amazing bodies, loving ourselves unconditionally, deepening our relationship with the Divine Feminine and embracing our power to magnetize our deepest desires with pleasure and ease.
I can tell you that based on my own experience, and the experience of women in my community, this is a far easier and far more enjoyable way to live!
Testimonial
Jessica Burgess, Sales Manager
“Before I started working with Laura, I was really struggling with processing my own emotions, being in my masculine, living outside of my body and having upsets with my partner and mother. Now, I’m truly in my power. Laura taught me how to use breathing and feminine embodiment practices to surrender into my feminine, respond rather than react, practice radical self responsibility and work with my inner child. My life has changed in the most beautifully powerful ways and I’m ecstatic! I will forever be grateful to the universe for connecting me to Laura.”
The Feminine Process of Creation
If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably used your masculine skill set to accomplish things your whole life without even realizing it.
The masculine way of achieving involves hard work, following a plan and sticking to deadlines. Often it means showing up and powering through whether that is truly the best thing for your body or not. There is nothing inherently “wrong” with this way of doing things. This approach can seriously get a lot done! But it generally works better for men because their bodies are biologically designed to expend and direct energy; whereas the feminine body is designed to RECEIVE.
The feminine process of creation has everything to do with SOFTENING, OPENING, ALLOWING and RECEIVING.
Think of procreation for a moment. The biological job of the masculine is to penetrate and plant the seed in the feminine. The job of the feminine is to open and receive the seed. Then the magic happens! Well, beautiful sister, the feminine process of creating anything is very much like that.
No matter what you desire, being relaxed and turned on makes you irresistible to life itself. When our bodies are soft and open, filled with radiant energy, we become magnetic – some might even say irresistible.
Our job as the feminine is not to make it happen; our job is to make it welcome.
Source is infinitely intelligent, infinitely creative, infinitely abundant and infinitely loving. All of that infinite possibility wants to pour through us all the time. But we have to be an open channel in order for that to happen.
The more soft, open and full of pleasure you are, the more easily life can create through you.
It requires feminine Embodiment, feminine mentorship and Soul Sisterhood
When I finally realized that I had been functioning from my masculine most of my adult life, I experienced wave after wave of grief for the loss of my feminine essence. Well, it turns out she wasn’t really lost – I just didn’t know at that point how to access that part of me. As I gradually learned how to embody my feminine essence, I felt so much more relaxed, happy and yummy inside. But that required practice, mentorship and lots of support from other women on the path of feminine embodiment and feminine creation.
FEMININE EMBODIMENT
First, you need simple tools that help you to soften, relax, open, and activate the flow of pleasurable energy in your body every day so that you can feel present, energized, creative, turned on, radiant and ready to receive.
FEMINESTATION – the feminine art of creation
Next, you’ll need to understand and master the mechanics of the feminine creation process so that you can allow Source to create through you instead of working hard all the time to make stuff happen or giving up on yourself in the middle of the creation process.
FEMININE MENTORSHIP & SUPPORT
You'll need the support of embodied feminine mentors and a circle of sisters who are practicing this new way of being. The cultural pressure from friends, partners, bosses, family, the media (and the voices in our own heads) to keep doing life the old way, working HARD, DOing all the time, GIVING all the time, is so immense that it’s darn near impossible to make this kind of shift on your own.
SOUL SISTERHOOD
In order for women to fully self-actualize and thrive, we must heal the wounds and judgements we have held against women. Most of us have felt hurt, betrayed, abandoned, threatened or judged at some time by another women – a mother, grandmother, teacher, sister, friend or colleague. As long we judge or fear women, we unconsciously reject ourselves and fear our own power. When we feel separate from each other, we are not fully able to help the world heal from the illusion of separation that fuels all greed, violence, war, poverty and abuse of our planet. When women come together in circle, witness each other’s vulnerability, share stories and celebrate each other’s triumphs, we heal our fears and judgements of women. We become more integrated, loving, compassionate and available. We help each other remember how powerful we actually are and together we can create lasting changes for our world.
That's why I created Embodied Creatrix Mystery School!
Learn More
The next Embodied Creatrix Mystery School will begin in the Fall of 2022.
Use the red button below to read about the details of the course and request an application.
Imagine this . . .
You wake up each morning feeling excited for the magic of the day to unfold. You luxuriate in your morning self-care practice, connecting with Source, expanding your vibration and setting your intentions for the day. If you have some days when you wake up cranky or lethargic, you know how to spend 10-15 minutes shifting the energy and getting yourself into a spacious, turned on, ready-to-create state of body, mind and spirit.
You love your body and you love getting ready for your day, adorning your feminine form in a way that makes you feel radiant.
You know how to keep your body relaxed and open throughout the day. You are so finely attuned to your body that you become aware very quickly if you start to contract, clench or build tension in your physical, emotional or energetic body. You can easily tell if you are starting to slip back into old fear patterns of control, resistance, avoidance, pushing, or using too much effort to make something happen.
You have become expert in channeling love, pleasure and joy through your body. You know that these energies allow you to align with Source so that you can receive your deepest desires.
Feeling joyful, expansive, relaxed and turned-on is your new normal. You have the tools and the body memory to easily shift out of old dysfunctional patterns and back into pleasure, joy, ease and flow.
You know in every fiber of your being that you are completely loved and supported by Source. You use your thoughts, words, energy and inspired action to consciously co-create with Source instead of creating with stress, struggle and hard work. You know how to do your part and allow Source to create something far greater than you ever could have imagined!
You trust Divine timing and your own innate timing. You no longer stress yourself out with impossible expectations of way too much to do each day.
You find that you are actually creating more of what you truly want with way less effort. You rest when you need to rest and apply aligned action to your goals in balance with play and connection with loved ones.
You have an amazing sisterhood of conscious, loving, empowered women who see, hear, love, appreciate, support and meet you. You feel so grateful to finally feel safe and connected with amazing women. You don’t have to play small around them, hide your Light or deny your power. You get to be loved and celebrated as your completely authentic, messy, amazing self.
One of the life-changing benefits of being able to soften into your feminine essence at any time is that you can actually do this in the midst of conflict– which changes everything. When you are tense, triggered and armored up, the conflict goes on longer. When you know how to soften, open and become receptive, suddenly the energy shifts and resolution becomes possible.
You look around and realize that you are truly in love with yourself, in love with your body and in love with your life. It takes practice, simple tools and support to make these changes but you smile inwardly as you realize how much you’ve grown in just nine months.
What you will learn:
- Learn a step-by-step process for creating anything using feminine principles of pleasure, love, receptivity and ease instead of working hard to make stuff happen.
- Dissolve the tension, stress and unconscious armoring that has been taking a toll on your body, blocking you from experiencing deeper intimacy and connection with others, and preventing you from receiving all that life wants to give to you.
- Feel relaxed, peaceful and present in your body – and know how to return to a relaxed, vibrant state each time you feel stress, tension, triggers or overwhelm starting to creep back in.
- Fall in love with your glorious feminine body – your body is the vessel through which you create everything in your life.
- Activate your own life force energy so that you can feel juicy, turned-on and deliciously alive any time you want. Your Turn-On is one of your Feminine Creation Super Powers and it’s crucial for everything you want to create.
- Discover the creative potential of the Dark Feminine within you so that you can reclaim repressed aspects of your authentic self, own your power, have more fun, speak your truth, hold your boundaries, feel safe and connected with women and reach your fullest feminine expression.
- Transform limiting beliefs about your body, your worth, your capability, or what’s possible for you. You can use these tools over and over for the rest of your life - and you’ll probably need to because each time we decide to expand and express more of who we really are to the world, the ego gets scared and tries to talk us out of it.
- Activate the radiance of your feminine essence so that you can magnetize more of what you actually desire with far less effort, stress and striving.
- Dissolve your blocks to receiving and cultivate an intimate relationship with Source so that you can tap into all the love, support, guidance and abundance that is your true nature.
- Learn more about the Divine Feminine and experience the unlimited magic that can happen through you when you allow Her to help you.
- Craft a life that truly aligns with who you are, your natural rhythms, your values, preferences and desires
- Know in every cell of your body what an incredibly powerful Creatrix you are. You can use your body, thoughts, feelings, vibration and actions to create the life of your dreams with joy and ease.
Dates, Times and Details
Embodied Creatrix Mystery School begins again Fall 2022.
There is an application and interview process. Click on the red button to find out more and request an application.
Testimonials
Lynelle Pierce, Clinical Nurse Specialist
“A huge benefit that has come out of working with Laura is the impact that it’s had on my two adult daughters. They have told me how they see the difference in me, how much I’ve grown and radiate. They use that word, 'You radiate, Mom. You rock this!' And now they are stepping into their own power. By working these practices, coming into my feminine, getting out of my head, softening and flowing, I have received so much more improved physical health. I am sleeping so much better. I don’t have all this tension in my head and neck and jaw. This work is such a safe place to explore who you truly are and let that real you come out and love her and be loved by a circle of women. It’s been a beautiful experience!”
Jordan Ryan, Yoga Teacher
“Our work together has been healing and profound. Thank you for the transformational space you hold. Thank you for your sensuality, your embodiment, your bigness, your aliveness. For not lending me your wings but helping me build mine. For calling me out where I am playing small, celebrating me when I soar, leading the way with curiosity, presence, acceptance, and Love when I forget.”
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